![]() ![]() ![]() Communication is a street and if she is not putting in effort than I either. Often, I can tell when my roommate tunes me out when I am not talking about something that interests her, so I figure, why should I give her mindful listening when she is just in needing of an ear? Therefore, when she talks to me, I pretend to listen sometimes because I know she does not fully tune in with me when I need her. However, some bad listening habits such as pretending to listen, in my opinion, can be justified sometimes. What responsibility do communicators have to listen as carefully and thoughtfully as possible to other speakers? Are there ever cases where the poor listening habits listed on pages (for example, pseudolistening, stage hogging, and defensive listening) are justified? How would you feel if you knew that others listening to you? important for a listener to make the communicator confident that he or she is being heard and understood, and to do the best they can to empathize through the experiences. So all in all, responding may be the step I struggle with the most. I hate this struggle, because it communicates a false message to them as if I do not care or do not understand their pain, when truly I do I just may be too absorbed in how I come off to them that it comes off as not genuine. I may completely empathize with a person going through something emotional, but my mind could draw a blank and suddenly I do not know what to say. I listen to them, but my focus goes to my responses such as eye contact, facial expression, what I say in return or the emotion in my voice. However, it is not elsewhere in the way that I am ignoring them. Not only do I have awful memory for fine details of stories people tell me, but often during the exchange, even if I care extremely about what the person is communicating to me, my focus goes elsewhere. ![]() Responding Name Chapter Notes Due: In my experience, remembering is a difficult stage as I have awful memory. Based on your experience, decide which of the following steps in the listening process cause the greatest difficulties for you: a. Communication problems can arise from factors that easily observed. of selective listening, avoid certain want to hear Listening taking in the meaning of a message Listening fidelity degree of congruence between what a listener understands and what the attempted message was Mindful listening giving attention to the messages received Mindless listening reacting to others messages without much mental investment Open questions asking for true response, variety of responses Paraphrasing feedback that restates in our own words the message you think they sent Pseudolistening pretending to listen Questioning when the listener asks the speaker for more Relational listening most concerned with building relationships and closeness with others Remembering being able to recall information told to us Responding giving speaker observable feedback to a message Selective listening most concerned with information that relates to them Silent listening staying responsive without giving verbal feedback Sincere questions aimed at better understanding of the speaker Stage hogging only interested in expressing their ideas and disregard messages Supporting expressions of care, concern, affection, interest, consoling listening most concerned with efficiency and accomplishing task at hand Understanding complex, composed of awareness of grammar, knowledge about source, and context Activities 1. Preview text Name Chapter Notes Due: Chapter 7: Listening: Receiving and Responding Key Terms Advising suggestions to solve the problems they come to us with Ambushing listen carefully, but only to collect info that can be used to attack you Analytical listening most concerned about getting full message before making judgement Analyzing listener offers interpretation of speakers message Attending psychological part of listening, as hearing is physical, Closed questions trapping listener into corner, looking for agreement, limited responses Counterfeit questions disguised attempts to send a message instead of receive more Defensive listening take innocent comments as personal attacks Empathizing showing that they identify with the speaker and their messages Evaluating appraises the as favorable or unfavorable Filling in gaps like to think what they remember makes the whole story Hearing process in which the sound waves strike the eardrum, physiological side Insulated listening opp. Chapter 5 Language - These are notes from the course Interpersonal Communication from the school. ![]()
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